Maybe so but Maybe not

Maybe this parenting thing isn't really so hard after all.....or maybe it is.....
As an individual that follows God and can not do things on our own and only do them through God.  Why do we make things so hard.  Is it because we let our "good intentions" get in the way?  Yes, at least in my case.  All I really want is a warm loving family that is there for each other and is caring and kind and speaks softly to each other.  Is that so bad?  No if you only leave it at that and don't try to control it and want it so so bad that it turns into an idol which leads to a sinning heart.  :(

So as a parent we should pray for guidance and wisdom and understanding in dealing with our children, situations, trials and family issues.  We should take each moment to look at the "what is going on" at the time as an opportunity to lead our loved ones to the cross, to Christ.  To be a living example for them to see Christ likeness in us to be able to hear God, see God and let God into their hearts and mind.

I can't change my son's heart or my daughters or anyone!  I can follow, submit, worship, honor and obey my heavenly Father and let Him do the rest.  Let God use the people, situations, and things to lead their way to Him so he can work on what he started when he created that person and the next....

My friends, do not be surprised at the terrible trouble which now comes to test you. Do not think that something strange is happening to you. But be happy that you are sharing in Christ's sufferings so that you will be happy and full of joy when Christ comes again in glory.    1 Peter 4:12-13